July 23, 2012 by kleinbooi
1 Corinthians 5:11 – ‘But actually, I wrote to you not to associate with
any so-called brother if he is an immoral person, or covetous,
or an idolater, or a reviler, or a drunkard, or a swindler, not even
to eat with such a one.’
Your association chooses your destination! Who you surround yourself with changes you! There is no way around it. You can tell how a person thinks and what they will become by the people they hang around. You can tell a true Christian by the company they keep. I’m not talking about spending time with sinners to witness, show love, or being in a position to save them like Christ did, but I’m talking about your buddies, your homies, your friends! The people you talk to consistently and the people you pursue for close friendships.
You can not accept just anyone as a friend. For example, there is no way you can be a true Christian and accept gay friends! You condone their lifestyle and usher them to hell! The Christ in you will not allow it anyway, if he’s in you! The homosexual will either want to change, or leave you alone! There is no way you can hang around weak Christians and stay strong! They will secularize you and cause you to start doing things you thought you would never do. There is no way you can change anyone by accepting them. If you don’t eventually try to help them, then they will eventually harm you. The more they hang, the more YOU will change and the less their issues will bother you. This week, we are dealing with friendships for the believer. Your key to success could be your choice of friends and your key to failure could be embracing the wrong types of people as friends.